Friday, March 11, 2011

Can I.....???

Last Tuesday, A (6 years) a classmate from Jason came to me.

A: Can I play at Jason's house?
Me: Sure. As long as your mother allow you.

A's mother: Sorry, A. I have to go to work.
Me: Maybe next time.

A's mother: How about tomorrow?
Me: Sorry, I can't. I have to go to midwife at 2 pm.

A's mother: Friday.
Me: Friday is fine.

But when it come to Friday. A's mother said she had to bring A to her work, because A's father have to over work.

A: Why don't Jason come to my house.
A's mother: He is too little for that. He doesn't dare yet.

It is true, Jason doesn't dare to go anywhere without me or my hubby. I don't know A's parents very well yet. That's why I don't dare to let Jason play to his house yet (without me). Maybe because I watch to many criminal series at the television ^__^. Where there are lots of possible children being sexual abuse while parents not around them.

I heard from different mother. She never let her children play to other houses after school. She said, "It is not necessary. They can still play each other at school with supervision of their teacher." Actually, I agree with her. What do you think her opinion?


maiylah March 11, 2011 at 6:25 PM  

i started allowing my son to visit his classmate's house when he was seven...he went there together with some classmates, too. the parents assured us that they would be supervised, so i let my son go. he enjoyed it and till now he still does that every now and then (he's now 11, going on 12 this month)...and he had his first sleep-over this :)

Juliana RW March 11, 2011 at 6:53 PM  

Maiylah: I agree with you. I talked to my hubby that I will let Jason play to his classmate house when he is around 7 years too. In that age, he will know which right and which wrong isn't it.

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